Inside each of us is a special talent, gift we have been given from birth. Many of us choose to take that talent and make it into our careers, while some of us take our special gifts and turn them into pastimes and hobbies.
What pastimes and hobbies does the person you love find interest in?
In a relationship, each person should have activities they like to do on their own. By showing interest in someone else’s favorite pastime is an expression of love. You needn’t know much about the others talent, but when you ask questions, interact, and spend time learning about the other – love has room to blossom.
Make a date with the person you love and spend a day or an hour allowing them to introduce you to thier favorite thing. Put on your hat for some deep sea fishing, bird watching, flea market shopping, or crafting.
Enjoy yourself, and enjoy getting to know the person you love. If you are interested in their talents, gifts, and pastimes, you’ll find them knocking on your door to find out what makes you happy too.
Susan Lower
